Anthropological Optimism: It's Getting Better All of the (Archaeological) Time

Pessimism is all the rage these days. It seems that everywhere you turn, one talking head or another is shouting about how bad we have it. Make no mistake. Things could be decidedly better, but they could also be a whole lot worse.

As we argue over things like education and healthcare, it's important to remember how fortunate we are to have healthcare and education worth arguing over. There was a time when both of those assets were available only to the very wealthy and even then were suspect, at best. (Think “flat earth” maps and bloodlettings.) Even that was an improvement over the time before education and healthcare even came into existence. (Think “Grandpa adrift on the ice flow” rather than playing shuffleboard over at the assisted living home.)

The simple truth is that things are getting better. It just takes time – many, many generations sometimes – for the whole, or even a significant portion, of humanity, to progress along the same social path.

For some, this pace of change seems maddeningly slow. In the parlance of US politics, these people are usually dubbed “Progressive” or “Liberal.” For others, change feels like a whirlwind, tearing down established foundations in a flash. These people are generally considered “Conservatives.” The perception of this same progression can even alter over the course of an individual's lifetime, depending on their experiences and influences. This seemingly awkward situation exists for a good reason, though – to keep humanity moving forward together at a rate that is comfortable, or at least tolerable, for the greatest number of people.

So, be wary of sly foxes who would have you believe the sky is falling. It's true that we have many important decisions to make, as a nation and, more importantly, as a species. Strongly differing opinions don't signal the end of days, though, so much as the slow, certain march toward our shared future.


Today's exercise: Read any book written 150 or more years ago and note the many ways human life has improved.*

Next: Why February is, in fact, the Yummiest month of the year.
(Never let it be said that we don't enjoy a challenge... Who comes up with these topics, anyway?)



*Films of reasonable historical accuracy may be substituted by parents of children under 10 years of age. We are not without mercy. (We are, however, without titles to suggest. If you find anything good, do let us know. Our taste is not limited to bad movies alone.)

Re-Creation*

Playing on a rope swing.

No matter who you are or how you get through this thing we call life, it is fair to say that the act of “living” is no mean feat. Whether you are a jaguar hunting its dinner through the rainforest or a guy named Hunter who sells Jaguars on commission, just getting through a day can take a lot out of a person.

Sometimes you may feel as though your job/spouse/children/parents/house/bills/etc. are sucking the life out of you, wearing you down, grinding away at your person-hood.

They are.

Most people love their children. Many love their spouses and are fond of their homes and lifestyles. Some twisted individuals even enjoy their professions.** Even so, each of these demands at least a little, if not a great deal, from you, every day – your time, your energy, your effort, your attention. At the end of the day it's easy to find that you've given it all away – all of your self.

It is for this reason that the Yummish feel that the occasional seemingly selfish indulgence is actually an act of great generosity.

Rest, relaxation, vacation, holiday and unapologetic screwing off give us time away from the barrage of need and allow our own Yum to regenerate. In these moments, we heal and re-create ourselves. As we have noted before, it is a basic tenet of the Yummish Faith that you are the gift you give the world. Reserving some time and energy allows you to renew and refresh that precious gift, allowing you to give more of yourself in the future.  

And, yes, thank you... We did have a nice week off.
 


Today's exercise:  Do something nice for yourself.

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*For matters relating to pro-creation, please visit the gestatingly fabulous Mom In High Heels.

**To clarify, this generally applies to those employed as “professional yachtsmen” or “international hockey scouts” and not those who sweat and toil down on the cube farm.

The First 400 Words: A Note From the Author

There are all sorts of nasty things I could say about my home town. I know because I've practiced. You might say it was my major course of study in high school. Then I graduated, largely because no one could stand the continued sight of me, and I finally had the whole world in front of me with no family or obligations to hold me back.

So, of course, I immediately married a hometown boy with family ties deep enough to be genetically suspect. It was not at all unusual to be at the Piggly Wiggly with Gary only to find that everyone in the store was his relative, of some sort or another. I have no living family to speak of and only one half of one generation residing below ground, so you can imagine how thrilled his family was to add me to their tree. When we got married I was told that their old family bible had been lost in hurricane Frederick, but I suspect Gary's mother, Irene, – an aggressively thin woman with hard gray eyes -- had hidden it rather than add my name to that most sacred of genealogies. That was actually fine with me, since I have terrible handwriting and never have developed a satisfactory trademark signature.

Everyone suspected that I was pregnant when we made the announcement (complete with short engagement period) about a week after my graduation ceremony and my size did little to dispel that rumor. It was Mrs. Harris, my friend Tanya's mama, who convinced me to lose weight before the big day, saying my wedding photos were the most important pictures I would ever have taken and it was vital to look as much like the movie stars in the magazines as possible. She's a hairdresser and has been married three times, so has a lot of experience with weddings. For the six weeks before the wedding I worked my ass literally off and, on the day, I managed to close the zipper of that size 12 dress. It was the smallest I had ever been. I thought my mother-in-law-to-be would be pleased with my improved appearance, but instead she grew more and more horrified with each dropped pound. My decreasing waistline could only mean that I was not, as she suspected, knocked up, and it was not a sense of duty that was compelling her son to marry me. He had, in truth, simply settled.

The above quotation is the first 407 words of my current work-in-progress. Unfortunately, recently, I've had more work, so there's been less progress than I would have liked. Therefore, I am going to take a one week hiatus from updating The Yummish Faith blog, in order to concentrate on this new novel.

Should you find that you just can't take an entire 7 days without reading my nonsense, may I suggest you consider obtaining my first book, “Homecoming,” now available from Amazon.com.

Today's exercise: Please don't forget your Yummish Faith over the next week.

Next: The necessity of rest and relaxation.